When traveling in Ghana, as most non-Western places, it is important to remember where you are. For most of the world, life is very different than we know it in America. No matter how poor you may feel, you are a very rich person compared to most people on earth.
What can you do when traveling?
1) Bring gifts I cannot believe how much I managed to solicit from friends and organizations, and my closets received a much-needed cleanout. School teachers loved the inflatable globes that I was giving away. But often after thanking me profusely for the gift, the teacher would ask that next time I just bring pencils and paper. When packing, plan to leave much of what you take - even partially used toiletries or medicine. This creates lots of room for things to bring back.
2) Be respectful You will see things that you do not understand. You will hear things that you may not agree with. You may not even be able to understand the English coming from somebody's mouth. Do not treat people like imbeciles. Remember that there is no correct way to live life and every person is deserving of respect. Ask questions, but don't preach or be condescending.
3) Be generous It is simply not possible to help everyone. And "chancers" are always around - people who take a chance that you will be generous because of a sad story or a simple request. But that request for a tip is an inconsequential amount to you. Unfortunately, Americans have a reputation as being stingy people and you can do your part to help change that. Sharing your food is the easiest way to join this culture of interdependence.
4) Be receptive When you are approached, be friendly, not fearful. The interpersonal space is very close and physical contact is part of a conversation. Most people have a genuine interest in strangers. Despite the disgust with the current American administration, there is still great admiration and respect for American people. Talk about your family and your life because many cultures have an oral tradition where the sharing of stories is the basis of communication and learning.
5) Be PatientOK, so you're hot, uncomfortable, hungry. The water is not running or the electric is off. You're waiting too long for your food or drink. Unbundle your panties and don't work yourself into a twit. Relax and enjoy the unhurried pace of life. But please don't make a spectacle of your displeasure and reinforce the stereotype of a spoiled impatient American.
6) ConserveOur wasteful Western lifestyle is quite shocking to anyone who lives on $2 a day. To not eat food that is served to you because you don't like it is just not acceptable. You eat it and be grateful for the hospitality of your host. While abundant for tourists, clean water is precious and you should treat it that way. Every little thing has value - a sheet of paper that has a blank side, an empty bottle, a plastic bag. Seriously.
7) Have FunGosh, I didn't mean to get all preachy. You're on holiday so have fun. For people with so little, there is great joy in life in Africa. Drop your inhibitions and share in that joy. You will be a changed person.